Book


Authentic Collaboration:
A Bridge to Meaningful Connection

Published 2023


Collaboration is the most essential life skill of our era.

The typical way of collaborating is often hindered by competition, mistrust, defensiveness, power struggles and polarized thinking. What if we reimagined what is possible? This book offers a fresh approach by elevating the paradigm beyond an "us-versus-them" mindset.

Authentic Collaboration is a holistic vision that cultivates respectful bridge-building with self others and Earth. Developing a heart-centered relationship with each is the key to fostering meaningful connection. In these pages, you'll find a practical framework, guiding principles, inspiring stories and forty skill-building exercises for use at at work, at home and in the community.

Prepare for a provocative exploration as we learn how to hold all needs with care. It's time to bring out the best within and among us. Let's build bridges together toward greater resiliency, belonging and harmony.

The true power of collaboration is ready to be unleashed.

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What readers are saying...


"Authentic Collaboration" is not just a book; it's an invitation to explore the depth of true collaboration. With its vivid portrayal of trust, transparency, and earnest engagement, readers are encouraged to ponder: How can we foster genuine collaboration in our own spheres? What does it mean to transparently engage with others? How can collective strengths be harnessed for greater impact?


The narrative of this book serves as a beacon, guiding us towards the magic that emerges when individuals unite authentically. Dive in and let this enlightening book help you spark transformative conversations and actions to powerfully drive your collaborations.


Elizabeth writes with grace and compassion to lead us to heart-centred communication and collaboration. She has taken a holistic and gentle approach to a complex and layered challenge. This book has many golden nuggets of wisdom.


Elizabeth's Seven Layers of Listening has inspired me to become aware of how I show up, connect and relate. As I listen more to my heart and to the natural world by following my intuition, my listening capacity grows. I recommend Elizabeth's book to truly understand and start collaborating!


What a fantastic book! The author's thesis completely resonates with my own belief system: a deeply felt knowledge of our interconnection with each other and all living things is the key to facing the challenges we face individually, in relationships, communities, workplaces and the world. What is really exciting about this book is how Soltis brings her thesis alive with practical activities. I will definitely be using this book to take my work to the next level!


Since reading this book, I have spent more reflective time in nature. Life is part of an interdependent web. Elizabeth's book is relevant to what is happening in the world today. She provides insightful direction for those who want to become positive change-makers.


This book introduces a much needed change in the way we relate to each other, especially in the areas of equality, mutual respect and heart sharing. Heart sharing is the most important key for me, because it has been forever unacknowledged and seldom given the recognition it truly deserves.


This book is truly essential for anyone seeking to transform their relationships. Prior to reading it, I hadn't contemplated my connection with Earth as a dynamic, sentient entity. This book illuminates the significance of bonding with nature as a means to enrich not only self-discovery but also interpersonal connections. Its insights reveal the interplay between self, nature, and others.


As an international consultant, I realize that relationships matter in this world. To be effective, the quality of my relationships with my clients must be authentic and heart-centred. This book enables me to ask different questions, listen more deeply, speak courageously, and resolve conflict with greater skill.


Given the complexity of the global challenges we face, I believe adopting Elizabeth’s holistic, integrative approach to effective collaboration will help us respond to each other in a way that honours empathy, active listening, mindful communication, and connection. We need to co-create mutual understanding.



Collaboration Comparison

This infographic offers distinctions between conventional collaboration and authentic collaboration. Each bridge lane lists behaviours for the different aspects or features of collaboration.


Rather than compare approaches from the lens of "right/wrong/good/bad," reflect on how you can collaborate with greater empathy and mutual respect.


This image carries four intentions:

  • to reimagine what's possible
  • offer shared language
  • spark self-reflection, and
  • stimulate meaningful dialogue.


How would you describe how you relate?

Authentic Collaboration Vision

This infographic summarizes the vision of Authentic Collaboration, a new, holistic bridge-building paradigm that respects self, others and Earth.


In our interconnected world, the principle of interdependence is the 'over-arching' principle.


The 'power pillars' that underpin the bridge foundation support self-empowerment, sharing power and co-creating vision.


The bridge platform carries respect for self, others and Earth. Thus, this structure has a three-lane roadway - each relationship is of value in fostering meaningful connection.


The RELATE guiding principles are the 'vertical ties' that uphold the relational traffic flow on the bridge.


In practicing this integrative way of collaborating, we dialogue about our differences, build trust and celebrate our strengths. Together, we 'cross over' and experience greater confidence, belonging and harmony. This bridge signifies a life-long journey towards personal mastery.


How does this vision resonate with you?


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